Healing The Karmic Dance
June 29th, 2008 by Kavi
Many relationships in life are based on a dance of karma which can cause us to behave around certain people in different ways. You may have noticed this after being around some people, and wondered why you say or do the things you do around them. Most relationships in our lives are like this, whether it be with family, friends, spouses or co-workers.
What happens is that the person is bringing up an energetic feeling within you that you will then try to avoid, at any cost. Avoiding the feeling results in a dancing of egos. Once you become aware of it, you will be able to see the pattern. In most people this is a completely subconscious thing, and they live their entire lives as a karmic dance between the individuals that are in their lives.
However, through the Grace of God a miracle is possible. The karmic charge can be healed and the dance permanently broken. The key is in being aware of the feeling that comes up that causes you to behave in a certain way and to simply feel it without acting upon it. Let your actions then flow from the heart rather then from the charge (raise your vibration). Often a healing of a karmic bond is a lesson that would normally take lifetimes; in one instant the lesson is learned and you are set free.
Some people in fact live permanently in a heart based state of consciousness and do not react to karmic charges, instead acting from a place of Divine stillness and peace. They simply allow Love to flow and heal. Their Love uplifts and heals the person who they would have otherwise danced with and in doing so a part of themself is healed, for we are all one.
Once the karmic bond is healed the person whom you had it with will sometimes drop out of your life if it was the only thing holding them there. If they stay in your life, and you can consistently act from a place of Love rather than the charge, you will then have formed a Holy relationship with that person.
Finding The Charge
Becoming conscious of the charge is the first step. Next time you interact with someone in your life pay close attention to what feelings arise in your body. It can often be very subtle, but sometimes it is very strong. Look for the feeling especially in the front of your body, in the region of the abdomen and heart.
If you want you can tell the person that you would like to form a Holy relationship with them and you can ask them to pray with you.
Prayer:
O Holy God in Heaven, please lift us up in your Spirit and Love. Please Lord dissolve the impurities in our hearts and help us to form a Holy Relationship so that we may serve you as your healed children.
Amen.
When you do this you are literally bringing Heaven to Earth, as you allow God’s Love to flow through your open heart and dissolve the tangle of the ego which before then had been the basis of your relationship with that person.
The forming of a Holy relationship with your spouse or significant other can be the first step towards the transformation of that relationship into a pure SoulMate relationship. With your ego “debts” then healed you can far more easily open your heart to behold your SoulMate before you.
